As far as alternative dates go I am open for suggestions. I picked February 15 - 18 because it is the last three day weekend before memorial day. I am trying to not miss any time from work this year so would prefer a three day weekend. Memorial day is an option but it is exactly one month from my wedding day (May 26th vs June 27th) and I was concerned with everyone having to do something in May and then one month later having to buy a ticket to San Diego.

For each one of you that can make it, I will enjoy myself more. So here is my request, if February 15 - 18th does not work suggest actual dates when you can do it rather then just saying "later". We can then come together on something workable and make it happen.

Last thing, Bear and I had talked about doing a dual bachelors. He will be having multiple thrown for him and I figured why not double up for the two of us to make it easier for everyone. Bear are you still interested in this or do you prefer something else?

Please add some concrete data all and lets do something.